You have only two options. Forgiveness or bitterness
The Bible says, “Then Peter came to Him and said, ‘Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?’ Jesus said to him…‘up to seventy times seven’” (vv. 21-22 NKJV). Seventy times seven equals 490 times. And it’s your “brother,” someone you have to live or work with, who you’re called to forgive. In essence Jesus was saying, “Forgive, and keep on forgiving if you want to have a relationship with this person.” Let’s face it, we all make mistakes because we’re flawed in different ways. Perfection only exists in God. Recall Jesus’ words: “Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do” (Luke 23:34). Truer words have never been spoken, and very few concepts are more significant to remember in a relationship. While it’s perfectly normal to feel anger and a natural human reaction to feel mistreated, there is a big difference between healthy anger and the corrosive emotion of bitterness. Bitterness is relational cancer. As Dr. Maya Angelou said, “[Bitterness] feeds upon the host. It does nothing to the object of the displeasure.” In this case, the “host” is your relationship, and forgiveness is the medication and the cure. Jesus said, “As ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise” (Luke 6:31). Offering the degree of forgiveness you wish to receive ensures that your relationship stays healthy and free from the disease of bitterness. Is it sometimes hard to do? Yes, but if you pray, God will give you the grace to do it!
Get daily encouragement straight to your inbox!
Start your day with The Word For You Today—a trusted source of daily encouragement designed to speak right to your heart. Whether you're juggling work, family, or just needing a quiet moment with God, these short, powerful devotionals help you stay grounded in faith and hope. It’s like a gentle nudge from a friend reminding you that God is with you, even in the chaos. Perfect with your morning coffee or during school drop-off downtime, The Word For You Today fits beautifully into your routine and brings spiritual encouragement just when you need it most.
Help Share Hope with The Word For You Today through UCB Radio
Your donation can be the light someone needs in their darkest moment. By supporting you UCB Radio's The Word for You Today, you help us put this life-changing devotional into the hands of people who are hurting, discouraged, or searching for hope. Every gift you give helps share God's Word, offering comfort, guidance, and the promise that they are not alone. Partner with us to bring encouragement and faith to those who need it most.
Uplift Your Day with the Free UCB App
Read The Word For You Today on the go, get encouraging music, podcasts, and more—right at your fingertips. Try the 30-Day Listening Challenge and see the difference it makes.
Enjoy a Brighter Day with UCB Radio!

Listen Every Day

Join the Community

Share the Mission

